N.T.#592 "Who do You Love Most?"
July 17, 2025
Luke 14-Part 5
If any man come to Me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple. (verse 26)
LET IT GLOW
What does it cost to be a disciple or follower of Jesus Christ?
According to Charles Swindoll, we have to have our priority in relationships, in plans, and in possessions.
I. Priority in Relationships
You mean we have to hate our family, loved ones, or we can't be Jesus' disciples? That is often the question after reading verse 26. I have wondered the same thing. This explains what Jesus meant.
In the Greek language and this verse, hate means love less.
Now that makes sense, right? Who are we to love less than we love Jesus?
- father,
- mother,
- wife,
- children
- brothers,
- sisters,
- own life.
I like how Falwell put it: To be Christ's disciple, He must be Lord. If He is not Lord of all, He may not be Lord at all!
We love our loved ones and that is good and obedient to the Word. Yet, when it comes to priorities, we must love them less than we love Christ. When our duties to parents or family come in competition with our duties to Christ, we are to give Christ the preference. We are not to neglect their needs, though.
The only thing that counts is faith expressing itself through love. (Swindoll in reference to Galatians 5:6)
If anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. (1 Timothy 5:8)
We make Jesus our number one priority, then we love others and our self.
LET IT GROW
II. Priority in Plans
And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after Me, cannot be My disciple. (verse 27)
When it comes to our goals, plans, objectives, and personal desires, they must be under those of the Father. Are we releasing our own will in order to follow God's will for our life?
When planning our life, we are to subject all our plans to the will of our Heavenly Father. Whether it is our money, time, energy, schedule, job, or entertainment, we must put God first. Are we using our things for His glory?
God never asks us to give up something good unless He plans to replace it with something even better. (Life Application Study Bible)
LET IT GO
Help us let go of whatever is more important than You, Heavenly Father.
Fill us with Your love for others.