Singleness

 N.T.#228  "Singleness"

Jan. 22, 2024 

Matthew 19-Part 5

LET IT GLOW

It was not what God originally intended, divorce. Moses permitted divorce only as a concession to hard hearts. Although, sins can be forgiven when repented. Previously, we listed various scenarios and exceptions allowing for divorce when reconciliation is not possible. YIf you didn't see it, you may want to check it out. 

Swindoll gives us some good principles concerning marriage/divorce

1. Marriage should be an indissoluble union between one man and one woman. Mutual commitment, love, faithfulness results in harmonious and fulfilling relationship only death can end.
2. Life is not, and never can be, tidy, orderly, or perfect. Since we are all sinners, we need to learn to use the words forgive and sorry.
3. We who are not a part of a marriage cannot fully (or even correctly) evaluate the depth of the misery. Behind closed doors one can act differently than they do in public. 
4. To expect two people who find themselves in such incurable misery to remain bound to a lifetime of unhealthy disharmony-and possible danger-seems unrealistic. If the couple tried to resolve and rectify the situation without success, then divorce is reality.

God shows us mercy and grace and teaches us to do so to others. When possible, differences need to worked out between troubled couples. Our life should be an example to our children and others. God can change hearts, so we must continue to pray for it. Divorce does result in pain, especially for children. So may we work on being a faithful believer. 

LET IT GROW

There are some people who can remain single and faithfully to God. Jesus mentions eunuchs, who was typically a male servant who was castrated as part of his dedication to his master's service. Those include:

• ones who were born with some kind of physical defect so they are unable to have children;
• those who had bee castrated for special service;
• those who voluntarily chose to live as if they were eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom.

Singleness, like marriage, is not for everyone. Some people are not meant for marriage. Some could marry, but they want to give their full attention to the things of Christ and His kingdom. God doesn't call a person of divorce so they can be fully in ministry. It is important for people to seek God's will for their life. So it is an individual decision.

LET IT GO

Glory to God in the highest!

Help us honor You in our marriage and walk.