Exceptions

 N. T. #227 “”Exceptions”

Jan. 19, 3024

Matthew 19-Part 4

LET IT GLOW 

There seems to be no list for permissible divorce. When a man and woman marry, especially from two different backgrounds, adjustments can be hard. Communication is important, as well as compromise. Unfortunately, you can’t really know a person until the marriage covenant and I do’s and living together. 

However, we live in a world that is fallen, fallen into sin. Paul said it is better to live a life of singleness if one can. (1 Cor. 7) Some are not meant for marriage. Those meant for marriage glean privileges and delights when marriage is their high calling of permanence.

LET IT GROW

There are various scenarios and exceptions allowing for divorce when reconciliation is not possible:

• mental or emotional cruelty
• physical danger of spouse or children 
• ongoing brutality and abuse
• abandonment
• immorality, adultery, incest, idolatry, fornication.

When marital bonds have been severed by sin or selfishness, and unfaithfulness, a believer must pray and decide their outcome. I know some couples who have saved their marriage when there is repentance.

Let me throw this out: as a believer, we must guard our witness. Being faithful to God and His teachings is of utmost importance.  Forgiveness and love can cover a multitude of sin. 

I do not claim to be an expert nor a counselor. Even commentaries vary on the subject. Individuals must must make decisions they can live with. God can change hearts. All things are possible with God. 

LET IT GO

Help us find Your will for our life, Lord Jesus.

Use us in kingdom work.